You are You

The best advice my Mom could give me growing up was to just be me. Be the best me that that I could possibly be.

I often deviated from that path when low self-esteem, self-doubt stepped in. At times I’d often feel, ugly, worthless, like… the runt of the family.

Honestly now… Isn’t that the case with many of us? Most of us go through it and we end up feeling worthless, not believing in ourselves.

For me It was a process not an easy one. I had many set-backs. I listened to what people said about me and most of the time I believed them. But God! The word declares in Jeremiah 29:111For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

God created us with individual gifts and abilities. He has a purpose for each and every one of us. Doesn’t matter what we look like or what size we are Smile

In my life, personally, He changed what was meant for evil. He made me realize that I was fearfully and wonderfully made in His image. That I had a purpose!!

Everyone has a purpose, potential. God has placed within you gift, and He has given you the ability to fulfill that purpose. Don’t allow anything or anyone to tell you otherwise.

You are fearfully and wonderfully made! God Has His Hand on you.

– Joel Osteen, says in 7 steps to living your full potential 

“God knows your value; He sees your potential. You may not understand everything you are going through right now. But hold your head up high, knowing that God is in control and he has a great plan and purpose for your life. Your dreams may not have turned out exactly as you’d hoped, but the bible says that God’s ways are better and higher than our ways, even when everybody else rejects you, remember, God stands before you with His arms open wide. He always accepts you. He always confirms your value. God sees your two good moves! You are His prized possession. No matter what you go through in life, no matter how many disappointments you suffer, your value in God’s eyes always remains the same. You will always be the apple of His eye. He will never give up on you, so don’t give up on yourself.”

Know that you are the apple of God’s eye and He loves you!!

Be the Best you, you can possibly be.

Much love


H 2 H letter

Hi Everyone

I trust you well.  From time to time I receive encouraging letters  from people who has been touched by the music God instilled within me and Occasionally I will share one of them with you.  Below is a letter received from Karen who lives in Durban.


Hey Family,  How are you? I Hope you had a good trip back to Johannesburg, thank you so much for gracing us with your presence once again, I was blessed! I wanted to tell you that I love your second CD Extraordinary Love (I thoroughly enjoy the first as well). I take it with me in the car, to the office, and back home every day. I even pop it on at home before I leave for work every morning!  The second song is so special and I am so touched each time I listen to it… the words are awesome, we have so much to be grateful for and this songs reminds me that I NEED to love him for who is and for what he has “already” done for me… always. I played it in my car this morning and had a refreshing awaking, irrespective of what I go through, God knows, He loves me and took up the Cross for me, and I therefore need to love Him for His awesome love. Playing this song brings the Father to mind in a very special way, and I want to thank you for sharing this song with us… the pain that you endured, has been turned into power for many. Thank you Bernice.  Take care and regards to the family, I look forward to the next CD. By the way, when are you launching your website? Please keep me posted. 

Your sister in Christ,  Karen Lloyd – Deeper Life Ministries

We serve a good God. No matter what you going through, know that He is in control. As we start this new week rest in Him, For  He is Faithful. so Keep on Keeping on!

Much Love  B

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Hello Everyone!!

I am so Excited. This is my very first blog on Heart 2 Heart connect and that is exactly what this blog is going to be. This is where I will personally connect with each and everyone of you.  Where we can share Testimonies, humor, Love, advice anything that is on our hearts. I will personally respond to each and every message. I will share behind the scenes footage of concerts, recordings, etc. 

Here I will Keep it Real. No pretence or  shenanigans. THE REAL DEAL. All to the Glory of God!!

Remember : He who began a good work in you is Faithful to Complete it!